

Presuming Competence changes everything.
Expressing life differently
Hi, I’m Abigail Fidler - speaker, writer, photographer, and advocate helping people rethink what non-speaking individuals are capable of and what it means to truly listen.
After 24 years of believing Asaf didn’t understand the world around him, he began communicating with us through typing, shattering everything we thought we knew and revealing his rich inner world.


Welcome to my world of storytelling through photography and writing. As a passionate advocate for presuming competence, I explore themes of resilience and discovery, inspired by my Autistic non verbal son Asaf, who has taught me to cherish the small wonders of life. After 24 years of being imprisoned in his own mind, Asaf began communicating with us through typing—shattering everything we thought we knew and revealing his rich inner world. This profound awakening led me to advocate for presuming competence, challenging perceptions, and inspiring change.
Through my blog, I share our journey, thoughts, and insights, and through my photography workshops, I invite others to experience the beauty of the world through a different lens. Join me as I capture these precious moments and share our story through my work and lectures. Together, let’s celebrate the beauty of life and the power of connection
Presuming Competence
changes everything
Expressing life differently
Expressing life differently
Hi, I'm Abigail Fidler - Speaker, writer, photographer, and advocate helping people rethink what non-speaking individuals are capable of and what it means to truly listen.
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After 24 years of being imprisoned in his own mind, Asaf, my eldest son, began communicating with us through typing, shattering everything we thought we knew about him and revealing his rich inner world.